A lot has happened since 2006 leaving the military including receiving a settlement from the LGBTQ Purge and receiving a diagnosis of PTSD. I found out about Heroes Mending on the Fly from retired military friends. I love being outdoors and I used to fish when I was younger, the thought of being with other “broken” military and first responders was appealing. Since then it has been nothing short of a miracle, the group welcomed me and as the departure date came closer I had a bit of a scare finding a lump on my breast. Two days prior to leaving for the trip, I contacted Gervais about my situation thinking that I would have to cancel. Arrangements were made at the Timmins hospital to have the ultrasound while Gervais encouraged me to still go fishing, go to my appointment, and return to the Lodge. Never having fly fished before, the group’s members were so friendly, passionate about their sport and teaching us newcomers tricks to help us learn to cast, fly tying, and genuinely cared about each other. One of the members who lived in Timmins accompanied me on the appointment day, welcomed me to his home to eat the packed lunch that the Lodge sent with me, and was a great company for the trip. Two days later I received my results that were favourable, and people whom I had only known for four days, joined in my celebration! I am so grateful to have found this group of caring and compassionate brothers and sisters. Catching several bass and a pike, I was like a little kid excited about reeling the fish in and my buddy netting my catch. One day there wasn’t any fish to catch, but I spent time on the pontoon boat with new and old friends, singing songs, even though I can’t sing, and learning how to drive a boat. I had so much fun, the Lodge owners were very nice and accommodating, the food was amazing! I look forward to learning so much more about fly fishing and getting together with these amazing people, my new-found friends sharing a common passion!
I was a little apprehensive while travelling to Horwood Lodge. This was short-lived, however. From the first moment of meeting the others in the group until the very last moment, I felt for the first time in my life I belonged. It was a great experience learning to fly fish and tie flies. Everyone was so patient which made it so enjoyable.
I would highly recommend Heroes Mending on the Fly to any women or man that is looking for fishing or picking up a new sport.
Brian expressed to me, as soon as he arrived back home from this adventure, how wonderful it was to have had this opportunity. He specifically kept saying how very nice everyone was. We believe this organization is, among many other things, a healing group of individuals. This adventure truly lifted Brian’s spirits so much. I hadn’t seen him so happy in a long time.
Heroes Mending on the Fly, Canada is a wonderful organization !
Brian and I want to thank you so very much for giving him this opportunity to be a part of your adventure at Horwood Lodge this year. Both him and I greatly benefited. Seeing him so happy means a lot to me !!!